Teaser

What happens to our way of feeling and acting when nearly every interaction is mediated, measured, and saved? Georg Simmel’s classic optics—money, number, speed—explain the “blasé” stance of the modern city and help us read today’s platform metropolis (Simmel, 1971; 1978). In a world of infinite feeds and permanent archives, secrets, strangers, and sociability don’t vanish; they mutate (Simmel, 1906; 1971). This post retools Simmel for AI-era life: how algorithmic quantification cools our affect, why the stranger proliferates online, and where playful sociability still rescues meaning from metrics (Gillespie, 2018; Zuboff, 2019).

Methods Window

Short, teaching-first reading of classics (Simmel) bridged to contemporary platform studies and critical sociology of technology. Grounded Theory routine: sensitize with Simmel → sample platform cases → iterate concepts (money/number/speed; secrecy/stranger/sociability) → refine with present-day literature (Rosa, 2013; boyd, 2014).
Assessment target: BA Sociology (7th semester) — Goal grade: 1.3 (Sehr gut).

Simmel — Mini-Profile (3–5 sentences)

Georg Simmel (1858–1918). A boundary-walker between philosophy and sociology, Simmel analyzed how forms (exchange, conflict, secrecy, sociability) shape life. In The Philosophy of Money, he shows how monetary mediation liberates and abstracts at once—expanding choice while thinning qualities into quantities (Simmel, 1978). In “The Metropolis and Mental Life,” he links the city’s velocity and calculability to a protective blasé attitude that dulls shocks and preserves autonomy (Simmel, 1971). His essays on the secret, the stranger, and sociability remain surgical instruments for diagnosing platform society, where distance/nearness, concealment/revelation, and playful form are recoded by databases and algorithms (Simmel, 1906; 1971).

From Money to Metrics: Number Eats the World

Simmel’s money is a universal equivalent; today’s platforms universalize metrics. Likes, watch-time, click-through, and “time-on-task” quantize attention, enabling frictionless exchange but also flattening value-differences into rank and score (Zuboff, 2019). The upside: comparability, scalability, coordination. The cost: qualitative nuance gets discounted; the blasé stance spreads as everything arrives pre-rated (Simmel, 1971). In Simmel’s terms, the objective culture (dashboards, A/B tests) outruns subjective culture (felt meaning), inviting cynicism and fatigue (Simmel, 1978).

Speed: From Street Crossings to Infinite Scroll

Where Simmel saw tempo in the crowded street, we now inhabit auto-play and push alerts. Acceleration protects us (fast filters) yet pressures us into thin attention (Rosa, 2013). We adapt with micro-defenses—mute, skim, doom-scroll—which resemble Simmel’s “reserve” and culminate in the blasé (Simmel, 1971). AI systems tuned for dwell-time intensify the loop, privileging stimuli that keep us present but not necessarily present-minded (Gillespie, 2018).

Secrets in the Age of the Archive

For Simmel, secrecy is a form that organizes trust and power (Simmel, 1906). Platforms invert the balance: routine over-exposure to providers (telemetry, logs) and selective concealment from peers (ephemeral stories, close friends lists). The paradox is new: even “private” talk is legible to infrastructures—searchable, monetizable, subpoena-able—so the cost of keeping a secret moves from technical (can I hide it?) to social-juridical (who owns the trace?) (Zuboff, 2019). AI’s probabilistic inference adds a twist: secrets can be predicted from patterns you never disclosed (boyd, 2014).

The Stranger Goes Viral

Simmel’s stranger is “in the group but not of it” (Simmel, 1971). Platforms normalize this role: moderators, crowd workers, recommendation engines, and parasocial audiences are near-distant others who shape our space while remaining structurally outside (Gillespie, 2018). The stranger now also includes synthetic agents—bots and recommendation models—that interact without reciprocal risk. Result: trust shifts from face to interface, and conflicts about authority (“who decides?”) replace older conflicts about identity alone.

Sociability as Play—Now Gamified

Simmel called sociability the “play-form of association”: interaction for its own sake, governed by tact, reciprocity, and lightness (Simmel, 1971). Platforms amplify the play but tether it to metrics—streaks, badges, levels. When play remains ends-in-itself, it repairs the blasé by re-enchanting everyday talk. When play is instrumentalized (growth hacks), it turns into compulsory fun, deepening fatigue and eroding trust (Rosa, 2013).

Practice Heuristics

1. Demetricate the core. Keep one space in your team/class that forbids visible likes and leaderboards.
2. Slow one lane. Create “slow channels” (weekly summaries, no-notification forums) to counter acceleration.
3. Secret hygiene. Define what must be off-platform and how traces are minimized (consent, retention).
4. Stranger audit. Map non-human and distant human actors shaping your space (mods, models, vendors); set accountability paths (Gillespie, 2018).
5. Play, not grind. Design rituals that reward reciprocity (reply-ratio, turn-taking) rather than raw volume.

Sociology Brain Teasers

• Where do you most feel the blasé today—and is it protection or drift (Simmel, 1971)?
• Which metric quietly governs your group, and what happens if you hide it for a week (Zuboff, 2019)?
• Name a “stranger” (human or machine) steering your feed. What authority do they hold without visibility (Simmel, 1971; Gillespie, 2018)?
• What is your team’s secret that should become a policy—and which “policy” should become a secret (Simmel, 1906)?
• Where could sociability (play for its own sake) be restored without hurting performance (Simmel, 1971)?

Summary & Outlook — Cooling the Blasé, Warming the Social

Simmel teaches that modernity’s freedom rides on abstraction—money, number, speed—but every gain in calculability risks a loss in felt meaning (Simmel, 1978). Platforms elevate this trade-off: metrics lubricate coordination while quietly scripting our attention and affect (Zuboff, 2019). The task is not to reject mediation but to remix its forms—to slow some channels, hide some numbers, and stage more genuine play (Rosa, 2013). In the next posts, I’ll test three Simmel-inspired interventions in student/platform teams: (a) demetricated seminar discussion with qualitative peer notes, (b) a “stranger audit” that surfaces hidden actors (including AI), and (c) a secrecy protocol distinguishing legitimate confidentiality from dark patterns (Gillespie, 2018). The aim is modest but real: to cool the blasé without freezing curiosity, letting number serve life rather than the reverse (Simmel, 1971).

Transparency & AI Disclosure

This article was co-produced with an AI assistant (GPT-5 Thinking). Human lead: Dr. Stephan Pflaum. Workflow: outline → Simmel close-reading → platform mapping → heuristics → QA. No personal data or case files were processed. Limitations: examples are schematic; real-world policy should follow legal/ethical review.

Check Log

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• Indirect in-text citations (no page numbers) added across sections ✓.
• Practice heuristics (5) ✓; Brain Teasers (5) ✓.
• Literature (APA, publisher-first links) provided ✓.
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Literature (APA)

• Simmel, G. (1978). The philosophy of money (D. Frisby & T. Bottomore, Trans.; 3rd enlarged ed.). Routledge/Taylor & Francis. The Philosophy of Money. Taylor & Francis
• Simmel, G. (1971). Georg Simmel on individuality and social forms (D. N. Levine, Ed.). University of Chicago Press. (Includes “The Metropolis and Mental Life,” “The Stranger,” “Sociability”). Georg Simmel on Individuality and Social Forms. University of Chicago Press
• Simmel, G. (1906). The sociology of secrecy and of secret societies. American Journal of Sociology, 11(4), 441–498. The Sociology of Secrecy and of Secret Societies. Chicago Journals
• boyd, d. (2014). It’s complicated: The social lives of networked teens. Yale University Press. It’s Complicated. Yale University Press
• Gillespie, T. (2018). Custodians of the Internet: Platforms, content moderation, and the hidden decisions that shape social media. Yale University Press. Custodians of the Internet. Yale University Press
• Rosa, H. (2013). Social acceleration: A new theory of modernity (J. Trejo-Mathys, Trans.). Columbia University Press. Social Acceleration: A New Theory of Modernity. Columbia University Press
• Zuboff, S. (2019). The age of surveillance capitalism: The fight for a human future at the new frontier of power. PublicAffairs / Profile Books. The Age of Surveillance Capitalism. Hachette Book Group